Dating Kinky
Equality VS Parity in relationships.
August 25, 2021
equality: the fact of being equal — parity: comparability of strength or intensity
In my mentoring piece a few days back, a conversation on FetLife went THERE. To the "can sex be traded for mentoring" place. 

And I, knowing it's a hot-button topic put my waders on and said, "Yes, absolutely." 

I also went on to discuss that there are a lot of things that can go wrong, and the people who require that or the people who are being asked to give that should do a lot of soul searching and be very aware going into that agreement. 

I also said that to say that is never good is to take agency away from people and their own bodies and lives, and to invalidate sex workers who choose to trade sex for many things: money, access, mentoring, car repair—whatever. 

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