Yesterday, for the second time, I saw a post on social media with screenshots from @jadedxxxdreams, and this time, it really connected with me:

> Some women have a higher body count because they’re afraid to say no when they’re put in a situation that involves sexual pressure from a man but I don’t think the slut shamers are ready for that conversation yet
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> I’ve said no before and they got angry 
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> I’ve said no before and they hit me 
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> I’ve said no before and they spread rumors about me 
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> I’ve said no before and they raped me 
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> Stop telling women to “just say no” and start teaching men to respect women
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> What makes me really sad is that many women will read this and they will relate to this and many men will read it and think it’s nonsense. 
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> I’m not brave enough to speak on my experience, but for those who are, I believe you.

Before I continue, I think it's important to note that she specifically said "many men will think this is nonsense," not all. 

Read the rest of the blog here: Have you ever been afraid to say no? - Dating Kinky