One of the things I love about the kink “community” (for lack of a better word), is that the people I choose to spend my time with are more open-minded than your average human. 

That’s NOT true of all of the kink community, although I would guess, based on the studies I’ve read and personal experience that people in the kink community do skew as slightly more open minded. 

Many, though, skew more open-minded in their own areas of interests, and don’t necessarily generalize that quite as much in other areas. 

Like how so many kinky people give swingers the side-eye and vice-versa. 

We’re both sexually anomalous compared to “vanilla” or traditional relationships, right? So, it’s odd to me that we are still often divided on these issues. 

But that’s the nature of such things. 

And today, I’m going to share some of my experience running up against this in kink.

And while I’m not the be-all-end-all of kink (far from it), I DO have nearly thirty years in this lifestyle, and I fight the good fight everyday against the WON TWOO WAY-ists. LOL!